i'm really happy for a very good friend of mine. Things are really looking good for her although she took quite the alternative route to get to this eventual success. gave her a spontaneous suggestion to fully utilise perhaps what the nation has to offer in the near future... :)
and then she commented," i like talking to you. you're always very optimistic."
not too long ago, another friend testified,"the forever ms. optimist and her zest for life is enviable."
Hmmm...Ok...whenever I received such comments, it always leaves me with a queasy unsettling feeling like
sure or not?...cos' I can be a real pessimist too. No kidding. Especially when it concerns my own life. for a while, I did lose the optimism and the zest for life i once had, I thought. But friends around me seem to see the other side of the coin most of the time. they have seen the pessimist me too except most often than not, optimist me overrides the pessimist me, they claimed.
we went on to another used-to-be taboo topic, for me. And she apologised for bringing it up. However apology not accepted, cos' i've passed that phase. I've embraced it and faced it squarely. If you've guessed it right, what other exciting question for married couples other than well.. babies. I guess I've never really addressed this issue here although like many married others, i've been asked this question many a times. We have never stopped it from happening, from Day 1. It's just not happening yet. And we've embraced it. Our time will come.. Insya Allah..and things come to those who wait...rite? Insya Allah.... :)
-- tea's thoughts --
1:14 PM
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